Filed under: Comedians
A very long time ago, I wrote a post about why I sometimes work with comedians.
I don’t mean ‘bad ad people’, I literally mean comedians.
Anyway, the reason I write this is because I recently watched an episode of Louie C K’s television show and came across a scene that was not only funny but was moving and incredibly revealing.
I love it.
I think it’s fantastic.
Apart from the writing, the other thing I love are the pauses.
Big, long pauses of nothingness.
To be honest, that technique used to be the domain of British drama … where directors appreciated a moment of silence could sometimes say more than a flurry of words, but over time – in these highly commercialised times – that trait has been lost so it’s wonderful to see it again in all its power and glory.
But back to the scene.
The reason I like it so much is not just because it reveals what truly goes on in the minds and hearts of overweight people [yes, it’s focused on women, but it also says a lot about men – especially middle-aged, overweight men], but highlights how many brands just get it wrong when they talk about health and vitality.
Hell, even when they’re trying to guilt-trip people into action, the points they raise are still a few degrees off truly connecting with where people’s heads are at.
The insecurities they face go way beyond how others judge them – it’s more how they feel they’ll never really get out of life what they believed they could … or should … especially compared to so many others around them.
Is this right?
Is this fair?
Is this changeable?
They are questions that – in some ways – don’t matter, because it’s not a rational argument, it’s almost entirely emotional.
As much as I hated Sex and the City, the one thing I definitely appreciated was their acknowledgement of insecurity.
That behind the face – whether it was young, fresh and successful or old, wrinkled and more humble – were opinions, thoughts and views that ravaged beliefs, attitude and confidence.
Or said another way.
Behind every face – regardless of how you may appear to the outside World – are dirty little secrets that conspire to continually fill you with doubt and anxiety.
You might be great at hiding from it. You may be well versed in ignoring it. But – as the wonderful Dove campaign from last year showed, you are never able to get away from it.
Of course knowing this offers agencies and brands 2 choices.
1. Exploit it for commercial gain.
2. Show how you can get passed it for commercial gain.
But as this sketch shows, at least to me, it’s not necessarily about highlighting the pain or showing the solution, sometimes the greatest thing you can do is simply offer a little gesture – like holding someone’s hand – because that shows you understand the situation without having to highlight the situation and for some, that can mean more to them than a World of [false] promises and hope.
As men – and seemingly brands and agencies – fail to understand time and time again, sometimes it’s not about offering a fix, it’s just offering an ear.
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